It doesn't. How do I know? Because I tried, multiple times even.
When you're trying to get over someone you loved for a really long time, and unfortunately it has to end, you will definitely have a hard time getting over it. Whatever the reasons maybe for the separation, if you are the one who is having a hard time moving on, there will be a lot of thoughts that will be running on your mind.
Getting over someone that you wanted to be back with is really hard. Specially if the other person doesn't. And where does reverse bittering happens? Or how does it happen?
Reverse bittering: After all is said and done, the rejection hurts—a lot. However, one can get over the pain by staying positive. Instead of blaming one’s self for the rejection or failure in the relationship because there is something wrong with him, the person should instead focus on the negative traits of the other person - "Ramon Bautista"
The sad thing here is even if you have listed a ton of things negative about the other person, the things you have listed would always be things that you have already accepted about that person. You know, unconditional love? Like if you will be listing that this person has a stinky feet anyways, duh, you don't really care.
I think reverse bittering is made for us to realize how stupid we were on that relationship. Simply because we have things we don't like about the other person, but we stayed and we still loved.
Ending? Moving on just really takes time.
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